"Hurry up." "Be perfect." "Don’t show weakness." We don’t hear them out loud—but these voices live in our heads. They shape how we show up at work, in relationships, in life. And most of the time, we don’t even notice they’re there. Welcome to the world of drivers—a powerful concept from Transactional Analysis that reveals the unconscious rules we live by. They help us survive, succeed, and belong… but they can also trap us in patterns that no longer serve us.